How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 12:20
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Should women be allowed in “combat roles” within the military?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can we become the best humans? How can we trust each other?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Did you ever accidentally have sex with your brother/sister in India?
Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Has your wife made you a cuckold?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Procrastinates a lot.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Are LGBT people accepted in Japan?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Why do I feel so tired all the time even after a good night’s sleep?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What's an uncomfortable truth you've learned to accept?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why do I get spun and then want big fat cocks to suck?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Losing 20kg is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hangs out with loser friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why is Taylor Swift re-recording her albums?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Does not procrastinate.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What I need from you?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?